Fostering Reflection
Whenever an employee is having trouble recognizing needed attitude and behavior changes, or an employee knows what needs to be done but can't seem to bridge the knowing-doing gap, a manager can help by coaching the person in reflecting on the performance issues involved.David Dotlich and Peter Cairo, in Action Coaching: How to Leverage Individual Performance for Company Success suggest these questions (edited a bit):
- Do you think you've changed in any way since you came onboard?
- What is most troubling about the feedback you've gotten? Why?
- In retrospect, what do you realize you'd like to have done differently? What would you change?
- Why do you think the organization wants you to develop in the direction we've been discussing?
- Before we finalize the action plan we're working on, let's consider one more time: Are there other doors to open that we've missed? alternatives to the actions we've penciled in?
- What aspects of the action plan get you most excited about your career and your future here?
- What scares you the most about the ways you're being asked to change?
- What issues are we leaving to deal with later?
- If we're sitting here three months from now [or some other suitable amount of time], what might we expect to have happened?
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